Ok we can say that we should pray into it and yes that may work, we can read about it in the bible and that may work but unless we are 100% completely on fire for God can we overcome this fear?
I can imagine that depending on where we our in relationship with God depends on the impact it will have on others.
I could ramble on, one other thing, if anyone else reads this do they ever doubt that heaven actually exists? maybe there is a God, but how do we know that the life we live currently isnt just going to end when we die, I know we have to have faith and trust in God, but I cant help but feel sometimes like we are believing in something that we are attempting to make real, its only at my low point when i think this but its still a thought...